In today’s conversation, I’m thrilled to speak with New York Times bestselling author Greg McKeown. He’s the author of Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less, in which he draws on experience and insight from working with leaders of the most innovative companies in the world, to show how to achieve the disciplined pursuit of less. Special thanks to my buddy Jon Vroman for helping make this conversation happen, however it was my friend Michael Hyatt, first introduced me to the concept of Essentialism when he shared Greg’s book with me a few years back. It quickly became one of my top reads of all-time as it truly spoke to me with something I’ve struggled with and I’m sure many of you have as well, balancing everything we want to do in business with the things that truly matter in life. I highlighted passage after passage, then I realized something… As financial advisors, if there’s one thing we need, it’s a book on what NOT to do and a framework to focus on the things that truly matter – and Greg has written just that book.

Greg has also spoken on NBC, NPR, and at countless companies across a variety of industries including Apple, Google, NFP Securities, and Goldman Sachs. He definitely knows a thing or two about helping financial advisors, as well as high net worth individuals – and his advice extends to almost anyone who has ever caught themselves struggling to make time for both their work and their personal life.

Today, we discuss why we trade off incredibly important things for less important ones. We explore why our world prioritizes working constantly and our obsession with the idea that you need to always be ON in order to be successful – and how you can have a fuller, happier life by focusing on what truly matters.

 

Here are a just a handful of the things that you’ll learn:
  • [08:05] Why essentialism matters so much to financial advisors. We dig into why we have so much emotional attachment to our clients – and the fool’s bargain that we’re prone to falling for.
  • [10:43] Greg’s “Aha!” moment that led to his book Essentialism – and why you simply don’t have to sacrifice essential moments of your life to grow a successful business.
  • [13:04] From there, Greg introduces the concept of the Undisciplined Pursuit of More and how our initial wins early on don’t set us up for future success, but rather, for a framework that ultimately leads to burnout.
  • [14:26] Then Greg introduces the 3 E’s – Explore, Eliminate, and Execute – which are at the heart of practicing Essentialism – and practical strategies that financial advisors can use to achieve more in less time.
  • [29:07] Greg then shares a powerful example of what happens if you continue to neglect and borrow time from other places in your life – and what happened to a very talented entrepreneur who stretched himself too thin.
  • [57:46] Finally, Greg and I get into why financial advisors need to focus on WHY when building out a plan for prospective clients, in order to build meaningful connections. HINT: If you’re focusing on specific details and not the big picture vision, you likely aren’t relating to your clients in the way you think you may be! Greg reveals exactly where so many financial advisors go wrong when presenting to prospects – and it’s something you can easily correct!

 

SHOW NOTES:

  • [05:54] The incredibly powerful story that opens Greg’s book.
  • [14:29] Greg’s strategy for moving away from chasing success – and instead prioritizing and pursuing what’s essential.
  • [19:37] Why almost anything we do has the potential to possibly be useful – and why Greg instead organizes his life based on what’s vital, what’s good, and what would simply be nice to have to keep his life (and calendar) decluttered.
  • [26:32] Why highly productive people, including the best financial advisors, would prefer to spend an hour of their time training someone to do something instead of spending an hour on it themselves.
  • [33:58] The reasons Greg believes that exhausted financial advisors are bad financial advisors.
  • [38:42] Why finding essential work that drives the success of your business for other people to do can be hugely useful – and taking a $20 pay cut in order to free up an hour of your time is worth it if you’re still earning $780, $880, or $980 an hour.
  • [40:20] Greg shares a story from early in Nora Ephron’s life about finding hidden stories – and how this applies to being an essentialist and a financial advisor.
  • [01:00:43] Greg explains why being competent leads so many people to take on so many inessential activities – and the number one mistake Greg sees so many people make, even when taking on big-picture work like writing books.
  • [1:07:46] Greg tells the true story of a 12-year-old girl on a business trip with her father, and how he made her feel essential – and how it proved he lived by his word.
  • [1:13:18] Why Greg’s wife and her wisdom is so essential to his success.

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